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Is Honesty Always the Best Policy? Lying for Someone Else’s Own Good
A reader took me to task recently over an article I’d written. I’d said that we should be 100% honest and she insisted that sometimes honesty is not the best policy. After hearing the story about her decision not to share the full truth with her elderly father, I agreed with her. Whole-heartedly. Is the relational harm incurred by being 100%...
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Why “What Would Jesus Do?” Is the Wrong Question
I can’t make one more decision. My Friday errands threaten to overtake me as I drive from store to store. There should be combat pay for Decision...
How to Save Time, Frustration, and Your Relationships
Do you and your people have different ideas about housework? Change your thinking without changing your standards. I got up early — how can I still...
Did God Promise No More Troubling Thoughts?
Excitement bubbles up inside me. How had I missed this Bible verse? "The righteous person may have many thoughts, but the LORD delivers him from...
Don’t Feel Beautiful? Here’s The One Thing You Need to Know
The memory startled me. I know I'm efficient. Tell me I'm beautiful. Decades ago, the poster hung above my desk in college: I know I'm efficient....
Should I Be Really Embarrassed?
Has something like this ever happened to you? When I was first dating my husband, we were having a lovely time laughing and carrying on, and then...
After This, I’ll Be Able to Catch Up
I’m not one who believes God causes illness and suffering. He can, I have no doubt. But I don’t imagine every disease is punishment for wrongdoing....
Avoiding the Ugly Voice
I didn’t intend for the words to come out. Not in that way, anyhow. I really wasn’t upset about the glass bowls that now lay in pieces throughout...
Celebrate Small Victories
Small victories is what we call them in our household. Those little (and sometimes not-so-little) things that don’t mean anything to anyone but us....
Whose Responsibility Is It, Anyway?
I couldn’t make it to class last time. Did we do anything? It’s one of my all-time favorite student questions. Truly! When I was younger and more...